We need to stop using “WE NEED TO….” in preaching

We need to….

We ought to….

We must…..

I once heard a brilliant Valedictory Address by Dr Derek Murray more than 30 years ago, in which he spoke about pastoral care as avoiding guilt-making. I’ve never forgotten the gentleness, compassion and pastoral wisdom of that address. Now I have no doubt at all that New Testament Christianity is profoundly, even outrageously challenging, demanding. And I know Paul especially, but John in his First Letter, and Peter and James, all assume a rigorous ethic of either imitating Jesus, being clothed with Christ, following Jesus in persevering obedience, getting the connection between discipleship and discipline, between trust and trying, between works and faith. But throughout the New Testament Gospel is Gospel, and the massive assumption that underwrites all Christian living is the invasive, radically renewing grace of God in Christ.

3orsini Guilt is NOT the primary motivator; guilt is countered by grace and transmuted into gratitude which is then reminted in worship and service. New creation means the old has gone – including those buttons that are easily pushed to make us feel guilty, and which then act as levers to make us act differently, and live the way we are told to. But preaching the challenge of the Gospel is not about making sure I’m confronted with my own failure to live up to the demand of Christ; it is being reminded again of the grace unspeakable; it is being shown again the tragic beauty of holiness in Christ crucified and the triumphant glory of Christ risen; it is being drawn again towards that ingrasping love that reaches out to me in all my weakness, and failure and need. In fact the most important use of the word ‘need’ is not what I need to do, but that I need, and that Christ is all I need! What I need is not a moral makeover, but a miracle.

Of course there is a place for conviction of sin, for recognising that even at our best we are unprofitable servants. But the wonder of the Gospel is that God doesn’t write us or others off as unthinkingly as we or others do. If it was up to some of us, and some of us preachers with our ‘we need to’ and ‘we must’, and ‘we ought to’ approach to ministry, the Gospel would be far less scandalous, grace would be far less free (by the way, how can something be less free anyway?), the love of God would begin to be brought under much more stringent theological control instead of being such an indiscriminate and endlessly patient mercy that pours down on our heads in huge cataracts of restoring, redemptive, renewing passion.

The Christian heart is brought again to obedience and held in continuing obedience, not by any preacher’s scolding, not by diminishing me but by exalting Christ, by a Gospel proclaimed, by grace, mercy, and peace finding their ultimate focus on Calvary where God in the holiness of love encounters our sin at its most persistent and worst, and in its most trivialising disloyalty – and overcomes it. Grace is not only free it is liberating; holy love is not only forgiving, it is enabling; and my sin, my oft recurring sin, becomes by a mystery beyond telling, the occasion for a divine intervention that restores my soul. And if someone wants they can press my guilt button, but before I can ever think about changing my ways, I need to find my way, yet again, to the one who changes me.

The hymn Amazing Grace is too easily eclipsed by cliche. But it tells a truth that should quality control all preaching that claims to be Gospel preaching.

’twas grace that brought me safe thus far,

and grace will lead me home.’

Newton was too clear-headed a Calvinist ever to make our relationship to God in Christ dependent on our own performance. ‘We need to….we ought to….we must….’ . Moral exhortation has its own importance, but when I go to worship what I need to hear preached is not my failure, but my Saviour; not my sins but the cross; not what I need to do, but what Christ has done with my deepest need.

Comments

16 responses to “We need to stop using “WE NEED TO….” in preaching”

  1. gavin hunter avatar
    gavin hunter

    thanks Jim – your words are so true. I think far too often we preach a gospel of law rather than a gospel of grace. Thanks for your words of wisdom Jim .This is a message all preachers of the gospel of grace need to embrace and hear.

  2. gavin hunter avatar
    gavin hunter

    thanks Jim – your words are so true. I think far too often we preach a gospel of law rather than a gospel of grace. Thanks for your words of wisdom Jim .This is a message all preachers of the gospel of grace need to embrace and hear.

  3. Margaret avatar
    Margaret

    Amen.

  4. Margaret avatar
    Margaret

    Amen.

  5. lynn avatar

    Very thought-provoking.
    I analysed what I say to the scores of children when I lead discussions with them –
    “how about trying…..?”
    “have you ever……?”
    “what about….”
    “it might be good to…..”
    is this just as “bad” because it’s a “softer” form of manipulation or am I genuinely laying out choices that they may like to take?

  6. lynn avatar

    Very thought-provoking.
    I analysed what I say to the scores of children when I lead discussions with them –
    “how about trying…..?”
    “have you ever……?”
    “what about….”
    “it might be good to…..”
    is this just as “bad” because it’s a “softer” form of manipulation or am I genuinely laying out choices that they may like to take?

  7. Jim Gordon avatar

    Hi Lynn. For me the issue isn’t about choice, it is about the primary motivation behind our choices. A Gospel people are motivated by grace; a heart inundated by divine love, a will captivated by the self-giving generosity of God in Christ, a conscience and mind renewed by the Spirit which don’t need threats to encourage faithfulness. All forms of rhetoric and persuasion are capable of abusive manipulation, and can be seen as bribery, threat, coercion aimed at compelling a desired outcome in behaviour. It’s just that in the crucified Christ I see a costly grace that invites free response, and yet which in the power of love and in the mystery of a prevenient grace, draws with an attraction and persuasive vulnerability that demonstrates a different kind of power – the power of love on behalf of, rather than the power of power over.
    But specifically I was speaking about preaching which seems to have lost sight of that huge cataract of grace that hurtles over creation with all the extravagant ‘waste’ of a Niagara in full flow. Such preachers need to….hold their bucket under Niagara and learn again how to wonder at a grace that is both colossal torrential force and gentle revitalising spray. Ephesians 1 is a good viewing point to grasp the scale and inescapable “thereness” of the grace by which we were, are, will be, saved.

  8. Jim Gordon avatar

    Hi Lynn. For me the issue isn’t about choice, it is about the primary motivation behind our choices. A Gospel people are motivated by grace; a heart inundated by divine love, a will captivated by the self-giving generosity of God in Christ, a conscience and mind renewed by the Spirit which don’t need threats to encourage faithfulness. All forms of rhetoric and persuasion are capable of abusive manipulation, and can be seen as bribery, threat, coercion aimed at compelling a desired outcome in behaviour. It’s just that in the crucified Christ I see a costly grace that invites free response, and yet which in the power of love and in the mystery of a prevenient grace, draws with an attraction and persuasive vulnerability that demonstrates a different kind of power – the power of love on behalf of, rather than the power of power over.
    But specifically I was speaking about preaching which seems to have lost sight of that huge cataract of grace that hurtles over creation with all the extravagant ‘waste’ of a Niagara in full flow. Such preachers need to….hold their bucket under Niagara and learn again how to wonder at a grace that is both colossal torrential force and gentle revitalising spray. Ephesians 1 is a good viewing point to grasp the scale and inescapable “thereness” of the grace by which we were, are, will be, saved.

  9. Ruth Gouldbourne avatar
    Ruth Gouldbourne

    Thank you – he’s here at the moment. May I pass this on? It has also helped me realise one of the reasons I preach as I do…..we need,/ought/must rarely turns up in my sermons, and I get criticised for it sometimes. But I learned something different……

  10. Ruth Gouldbourne avatar
    Ruth Gouldbourne

    Thank you – he’s here at the moment. May I pass this on? It has also helped me realise one of the reasons I preach as I do…..we need,/ought/must rarely turns up in my sermons, and I get criticised for it sometimes. But I learned something different……

  11. Amie avatar

    You are so right. Guilt doesn’t get us very far. I wonder if many people are put off coming to Christ because of all those thoughts of, “Then I’ll have to… and I’ll need to… and I must…” – seeing only the long list of changes they’ll need to make in their life. I think we need to challenge ourselves to try and be the best we can for God … but by His grace remind ourselves that He loves us just as we are and nothing we do will make Him love us less.

  12. Amie avatar

    You are so right. Guilt doesn’t get us very far. I wonder if many people are put off coming to Christ because of all those thoughts of, “Then I’ll have to… and I’ll need to… and I must…” – seeing only the long list of changes they’ll need to make in their life. I think we need to challenge ourselves to try and be the best we can for God … but by His grace remind ourselves that He loves us just as we are and nothing we do will make Him love us less.

  13. LA avatar

    Mmm, thanks for the thoughts Jim.
    I am stopped in my tracks when you said this: “and yet which in the power of love and in the mystery of a prevenient grace, draws with an attraction and persuasive vulnerability that demonstrates a different kind of power – the power of love on behalf of, rather than the power of power over”.
    A very meaningful statement for me.

  14. LA avatar

    Mmm, thanks for the thoughts Jim.
    I am stopped in my tracks when you said this: “and yet which in the power of love and in the mystery of a prevenient grace, draws with an attraction and persuasive vulnerability that demonstrates a different kind of power – the power of love on behalf of, rather than the power of power over”.
    A very meaningful statement for me.

  15. Amie avatar

    It reminds me also of the bridge from Casting Crowns song ‘Who Am I’ – “Not because of who I am, but because of what you’ve done. Not because of what I’ve done, but because of who you are.”

  16. Amie avatar

    It reminds me also of the bridge from Casting Crowns song ‘Who Am I’ – “Not because of who I am, but because of what you’ve done. Not because of what I’ve done, but because of who you are.”

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