Spirituality – conjugating the verb “to be”.

Evelyn_underhill Evelyn Underhill once observed, in her little book The Spiritual Life.

"Most people spend their lives trying to conjugate the verbs 'to want,'
'to have' and 'to keep'— craving, clutching, clinging—when all the
Spirit wills us to do is to conjugate the verb 'to be.' "


This comfortably off, middle class, Anglican spiritual director, whose devotional writing is a mixture of shrewd psychology and pastoral compassion, rooted in contemplative prayer, lived those words well. I still treasure many of her books – some of them in places laughably dated, but time after time you recognise, with a perhaps questionable spiritual envy, this woman's been 'far ben' with God.

0_post_card_portraits_-_jrre_pursey_rev_whyte The phrase "far ben" is Scottish, used by Alexander Whyte (one of Scotland's finest preachers and most catholic spirits), to describe a shepherd he knew in his teens, who used the isolation of his days sheep herding in 1860's Glen Clova, to think and pray towards a closer walk with God.

Both Underhill and Whyte, who I'm not sure ever even knew of each other, were steeped in the literature of spirituality – and from their starting points of high traditional Anglicanism with open edges (Underhill), and Scottish militant Free Church Presybterianism in which Whyte pushed the edges outwards beyond confining narrowness, they couldn't be more different. But as one of the puritans remarked of those he admired for their piety, they both "carried the scent of the same distant country of the soul."

Reading some of their work again, along with other spiritual writers from the past century or so, I'm not persuaded, not even half convinced, that what is available in today's spiritual writing comes anywhere near the quality and spiritual perceptiveness of people like Whyte and Underhill. And without being overly judgemental, I wonder if that's because writing today is aimed at the niches of the market, rather than being an essential by-product of a heart and mind with much to say that grows with organic healthiness out of lives that are and have been "far ben" with God. 

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8 responses to “Spirituality – conjugating the verb “to be”.”

  1. tony avatar

    There are a few other verbs that seem to define our culture in addition to “to have”, “to want” and “to keep.” I think “to do”, “to claim” and “to blame” are just as significant in our current understanding of ourselves.

  2. tony avatar

    There are a few other verbs that seem to define our culture in addition to “to have”, “to want” and “to keep.” I think “to do”, “to claim” and “to blame” are just as significant in our current understanding of ourselves.

  3. Ken avatar
    Ken

    The blog reminded me of a visit to the BUGBI Assembly some years ago in Blackpool when Cardinal Basil Hume delivered an address. Following the address, Helen Hutcheon commented ‘Ken, that man is far ben with God.’
    My grandmnother lived in a but and ben and the ben was the living room, with a warm fire, where the tin bath was taken out once a week.

  4. Ken avatar
    Ken

    The blog reminded me of a visit to the BUGBI Assembly some years ago in Blackpool when Cardinal Basil Hume delivered an address. Following the address, Helen Hutcheon commented ‘Ken, that man is far ben with God.’
    My grandmnother lived in a but and ben and the ben was the living room, with a warm fire, where the tin bath was taken out once a week.

  5. Sally avatar

    Great blog, and I agree with your point about niche market mentality, we diminish the depth and quality of spirituality by being consumer oriented!

  6. Sally avatar

    Great blog, and I agree with your point about niche market mentality, we diminish the depth and quality of spirituality by being consumer oriented!

  7. Lance avatar

    Though it has been over 10 years since there has been a comment about your observations they are just as true then as they are now,
    the simpler times back then presents a more unique view of the spirituality of life’s living without any consideration of what was popular at the time,
    opinions and reactions were more honest and less self-serving just as Whitman’s “Leaves of Grass” were a celebration of life just as it was lived.

  8. Lance avatar

    Though it has been over 10 years since there has been a comment about your observations they are just as true then as they are now,
    the simpler times back then presents a more unique view of the spirituality of life’s living without any consideration of what was popular at the time,
    opinions and reactions were more honest and less self-serving just as Whitman’s “Leaves of Grass” were a celebration of life just as it was lived.

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