Flitting – the approval of upheaval for removal to our new home

This is the week of the flitting. Now that all is said and all is nearly done, and the papers signed and the removal van booked for Thursday, we are just about packed up and ready to head for Westhill, Aberdeen. A previous post explained what we were about and why. You can read it over here in the February 10 blog post. 

Moving-house You do these things with mixed feelings, maybe more so because in my first 15 years I was in 13 houses and the school count also hit double figures. Since leaving home I've lived in Scotstoun, High Blantyre, Stirling, Partick, Paisley, Aberdeen (2 houses) and Paisley again and about to be Aberdeen again. By my count that means I've lived in 21 houses and am moving to my 22nd. The reasons for my identity crisis, inferiority complex, manifest insecurity, reserved and retiring nature, competitive disposition and general readiness to adapt to chronic change as life's norm, are surely not unrelated to such habits of migration.

I now sit in a dismantled study, boxes of books towering both sides of me; bubble wrapped pictures stacked against the walls now bare; the computer still connected but only for a couple more days. Then this blog is going to experience a first – a lengthy hiatus interrupted only by those occasions when I can get access to the internet. So those who are regular callers, you need to be patient, understanding and supportive, and normal service will return. For now sporadic updates, harrowing cries de coeur, weeping, wailing and gnashing of teeth alternating with whoops of delight, discovery or relief, will have to suffice to let you know I is still alive.

20089-a-view-of-the-valley-on-the-way-to-the-alpenrose-hutte-breithlahner-austria The worrying thing is, the boxes of books represent less than half my library – my College study has the same again and more, but they are staying put for a long while yet. Biblical stuff and some of the hefty theology / dogmatics, along with most of the poetry, biography and literature go up the road. Church history, theology, pastoral studies, philosophy, ethics, spirituality and other miscellanea are in the College study. The inevitable frustration will be wanting the books that always seem to be in the other place just when you want them. Mind you, these are my idiosyncratic worries – Sheila is much more to the point  and wants to know where the pictures will be safe, where to put the kitchen stuff so it will be easily accessible at the other end, could I check I know how to plumb in the washing machine, and could I make sure the removers bring mobile wardrobes to transport clothes to the other end where they will still be wearable. Right enough – who needs the Church Dogmatics when you can't find the kettle, or the washing machine is spraying the walls, or the clothes are a fankled mess of tortured textile? Well… all I can say is if the washing machine does spray the walls, I want to know the whereabouts of my set of Barth to make sure it isn't remotely within range. And as for the kettle, no need for either/or choices, however much attracted to dialectics – find the blessed thing, make the coffee and settle down with CD IV.1 and enjoy the mountain scenery of theology on an alpine scale.

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18 responses to “Flitting – the approval of upheaval for removal to our new home”

  1. Catriona avatar
    Catriona

    Hope all goes well and your new home is filled with contentment.
    Kettle, cups, coffee/tea definitely top priority.
    Precious items in the car – I lost a picture in my move that went in the van 🙁
    Every blessing

  2. Catriona avatar
    Catriona

    Hope all goes well and your new home is filled with contentment.
    Kettle, cups, coffee/tea definitely top priority.
    Precious items in the car – I lost a picture in my move that went in the van 🙁
    Every blessing

  3. Richard L. Floyd avatar

    Jim,
    I feel for you to be separated from some of your books, even for a short time. My daughter helped me move six boxes to my house this week from a remote closet in the church that I retired from five years ago. I had missed them.
    She put the one volume commentaries in canonical order for me, and I felt some sort of catharsis to have them in place again.
    Blessings on your move. I did it not long ago and it was stressful, but after living thirty years in parsonages, I love my new home.
    Best,
    Rick

  4. Richard L. Floyd avatar

    Jim,
    I feel for you to be separated from some of your books, even for a short time. My daughter helped me move six boxes to my house this week from a remote closet in the church that I retired from five years ago. I had missed them.
    She put the one volume commentaries in canonical order for me, and I felt some sort of catharsis to have them in place again.
    Blessings on your move. I did it not long ago and it was stressful, but after living thirty years in parsonages, I love my new home.
    Best,
    Rick

  5. Ruth Gouldbourne avatar
    Ruth Gouldbourne

    Having books in two places is an experience in discovering gifts of patience and thinking ahead! Four years of wanting it when it’s somewhere else has definitely deepened something in me – not sure what yet!!
    Al blessings, and settle well

  6. Ruth Gouldbourne avatar
    Ruth Gouldbourne

    Having books in two places is an experience in discovering gifts of patience and thinking ahead! Four years of wanting it when it’s somewhere else has definitely deepened something in me – not sure what yet!!
    Al blessings, and settle well

  7. Susan avatar

    I can so relate. I’ve also lived in about 21 houses. I married a banker who became a minister. My biggest move though, was when I was 6 and my family moved from England to Australia.
    Hope the move goes well,
    Blessings
    Susan

  8. Susan avatar

    I can so relate. I’ve also lived in about 21 houses. I married a banker who became a minister. My biggest move though, was when I was 6 and my family moved from England to Australia.
    Hope the move goes well,
    Blessings
    Susan

  9. chris avatar

    All best for the trauma! Look forward to catching up again when you’re back online…

  10. chris avatar

    All best for the trauma! Look forward to catching up again when you’re back online…

  11. ang almond avatar

    All the best for the move.
    As pastor’s wife AND pastor’s daughter, I too relate to the sheer hassle. I make sure I have a bag containing kettle, teabags, bible, radio, a loo roll and a clean set of underwear. That suffices
    Somehow I feel that I ought to be able to .live simply enough to not need much more than that – but once the move has happened, the ‘stuff’ quickly piles up again, doesn’t it??

  12. ang almond avatar

    All the best for the move.
    As pastor’s wife AND pastor’s daughter, I too relate to the sheer hassle. I make sure I have a bag containing kettle, teabags, bible, radio, a loo roll and a clean set of underwear. That suffices
    Somehow I feel that I ought to be able to .live simply enough to not need much more than that – but once the move has happened, the ‘stuff’ quickly piles up again, doesn’t it??

  13. Thomas avatar
    Thomas

    Moving your library will be a delight, as you must shake hands twice with each of your old friends, once when you take them off the shelf, and again when you place them in their new home. I wish you the best in having the right book to hand until all your friends are reunited with you, and hope you rekindle relationships with a few you might have forgot on the shelf.

  14. Thomas avatar
    Thomas

    Moving your library will be a delight, as you must shake hands twice with each of your old friends, once when you take them off the shelf, and again when you place them in their new home. I wish you the best in having the right book to hand until all your friends are reunited with you, and hope you rekindle relationships with a few you might have forgot on the shelf.

  15. Jim Gordon avatar

    Thanks to all for the good wishes and encouragement. Right now just emptied my desk drawers, and have filled a small box with the stuff that mustn’t get lost/damged. Might do a blog post tomorrow on some of these and why they go in the car with me.

  16. Jim Gordon avatar

    Thanks to all for the good wishes and encouragement. Right now just emptied my desk drawers, and have filled a small box with the stuff that mustn’t get lost/damged. Might do a blog post tomorrow on some of these and why they go in the car with me.

  17. Julie Aylward avatar
    Julie Aylward

    I moved two months ago and when our whole home was kept from us for 10 days by the snow we had a very stark lesson in how little you need to survive comfortably: a bed, two chairs and tables from church, two of plate, bowls, knife, fork and spoon, mugs, kettle, one sharp knife, one wooden spoon and two saucepans and an oven. Outside was the fridge. Oh and one change of clothes.
    Hope it goes smoothly and you are very happy in your new home.

  18. Julie Aylward avatar
    Julie Aylward

    I moved two months ago and when our whole home was kept from us for 10 days by the snow we had a very stark lesson in how little you need to survive comfortably: a bed, two chairs and tables from church, two of plate, bowls, knife, fork and spoon, mugs, kettle, one sharp knife, one wooden spoon and two saucepans and an oven. Outside was the fridge. Oh and one change of clothes.
    Hope it goes smoothly and you are very happy in your new home.

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